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Definition– It is the relationship communication space where two people invite each other to share their subjective worlds and understand the world of the other. It is an invitation to your partner to be with you rather than expect from you. This enables the couple to co-create a new, unique world of their own, with […]

My Definition– A date is a meeting with another person where you are looking for connection and compatibility. Connection happens on four levels- the intellectual, the emotional, the spiritual , meaning values of living, and the physical. If any of these connections are lacking, there will not be compatibility. Let me be more specific. INTELLECTUAL […]

This concept comes from the Book: Cinderella Was A Liar- by Brenda Della Casa. She lists certain unwise behaviors and I have added many of my own. Too much too soon – This concept has to do with both the emotional and physical. Emotionally, it is not wise to bring out all your issues, past […]

There is a relationship epidemic. One out of every two first marriages end in divorce and the statistics are even worse for second and third marriages. One out of every two children comes from a divorced, single parent, or a blended family home. Too many relationships start with good intentions and good will and invariably […]

There are definite traits that define relationship maturity and readiness. If a person is lacking significantly in any of these traits, he or she will have more relationship dysfunction and pain and suffering. The more traits that are lacking, the worse the relationship prognosis. The more traits that are present, the more happy and joyous […]

A healthy relationship is a place where each person regards’ the others ‘rights, dignity, feelings and general well-being as much as one’s own,and at times, more than one’s own. It is a safe place where two people share the experience of helping each other become more of their actualized self than they were before the […]